Many of us are also shy or reluctant to make public statements but rather like to reflect and think silently on their own.
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I support Vesa's feelings. Because it is a matter of feelings. "Say what you think" does not work as an invitation to speak or write. Reasons?
-shyness
-lack of confidence in addressing unknown partners (a picture does not remove the natural reservations).
-lack of a purpose: are you helping unknowingly to write a manual, are your ideas going to be sold without your consent (or benefit)?
-lack of fun: in a dinner you may talk just for the sake of it, but that is easier than pressing a lot of buttons and re-reading for typos or silly statements (which remain recorded for ever and accessible to the public)
-lack of reward: for some, exhibitionism might be the reward, for most, the fear of reactions (or worse, the probable absence of reactions!) will prevail.
-lack of "correspondence": unlike e-mail, where the old codes of reply are valid, there is no guarantee of response in fora.
In summary, as a mechanism for discussions, fora are inadequate and far from providing the right atmosphere.
(I will search for positive aspects for the other forum. Why two separate?)
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By the way, I separated the forums to focus on negative and positive aspects to try to stimulate people to think in a single way while they were making a single post--a sort of devil's (and angel's?) advocate approach to get issues on the table. I hope it works, but it does ask for participants to take one side at a time, which might be difficult. So far, people may be having difficulty listing positive qualities. That alone is interesting, but the week is still young.
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Actually this happened to me in this forum. When I logged in after a while, there were quite a few new discussions initiated. As I felt I was already late, I thought hmmm, I may take some time tomorrow to read them all and contribute… Then I postponed and postponed again. On the other hand, when I receive an e-mail alert, I tend to act as soon as possible.
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This makes me think that on the future discussion forums I will always set them up by forcing everyone to originally subscribe.
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If you prefer, I could make a change for everyone who might not know how to subscribed. Just let me know.